This journaling journey has come a long way, and suddenly I am writing the last entry.
To be honest, this exercise is quite exhausting. I struggled to commence every day and felt the urge to procrastinate. Nonetheless, this also serves as an invaluable opportunity for me to learn the skills I need to overcome this bad habit, which has been haunting my whole life. These skills have been mentioned in the previous blogs so I am not going into details here; in short, set an time limit and take minute steps to kick start the task, without thinking about getting things perfect on the get-go. Once the flow state kicks in it will take over.
There are a few themes I particularly enjoyed. They gave me an exhilarating feeling during the writing process, and I hope to revisit these themes in the future and see if I can find any new insights. One particular revelation I have taken is mottos such as "living to the fullest", "making the most out of it" etc. only serve to elicit the perfectionist monster within me. By worrying "not doing the best", this thought actually causes me anxiety and paralyzes my action.
Instead, I should simply relish the happy moments rather than not getting the best outcome. Nobody in the world can spend every day to the fullest, or always do everything best. There are many events in life that are out oy my control, appreciating I have put in effort, even not always the most, during the course of action is enough to celebrate. My self-worth is not be tied to the outcomes of those particular instances, and I should allow myself to fumbles at times. It is giving me tremendous relief, and I would keep reminding myself of this in the future.
Finally, I cannot emphasize more how grateful I am to Frida for encouraging us to do this meaningful journal. I am planning to continue this exercise, albeit probably not on the daily basis but whenever there are things which I feel compel to write. Perhaps looking back in a decade's time, this will be a fun read about my own self!
The journey is not finished; it is only the beginning.